Violence Against Women Act: Legal Sexism Against Men

The Violence Against Women Act, or VAWA, claims to fight for equality and solve the epidemic of male violence against women. In reality, it is sexist legislation that is unsupported by any evidence, and in conflict with the available evidence. 

It encourages and allows the regular abuse of men, and it should be modified extensively or abolished. 

How We Got Here

Due to the lobbying efforts of women’s groups, the original VAWA was created in 1994. It provided $1.6 billion that was used to create the Office of Violence Against Women (OVW) within the Department of Justice (DOJ). 

The DOJ and the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) were then charged with administering grants to states and local governments. 

These grants were supposed to address domestic violence and child abuse, create shelters, fund rape prevention and education, and create community programs. It also mandated funding for the study of violence against women – but not men. 

According to the Office on Women’s Health (OWH), the reauthorized 2013 version of the law provides the following services and support for victims of domestic violence and sexual assault:

  • Free rape exams
  • No charge for prosecution or civil protection orders in domestic violence
  • Programs to meet the needs of immigrant women and women of different races and ethnicities
  • Programs and services for women with disabilities
  • Legal aid for survivors of violence
  • Services for children and teens
  • Protections for victims who are evicted from their homes because of events related to domestic violence or stalking

The VAWA was reauthorized in 2000, 2005, and 2013, mostly due to the efforts of groups like the National Organization for Women, the National Task Force to End Sexual and Domestic Violence Against Women, and other women’s organizations. 

2015 was the only year when the VAWA faced any criticism, and that was mainly because religious Conservatives disliked proposed expanded protections for homosexuals. 

In 2019, the bill was reauthorized, and it included new provisions intended to protect transgender victims. It also banned those convicted of domestic abuse from purchasing firearms. From conception through today, the VAWA has been the product of lobbying by feminists and other women’s groups, and the verbiage of the act reflects this fact. 

The VAWA is Biased and Sexist 

One quick read of the VAWA reveals that the document is entirely sexist. The VAWA was conceived of, designed, and written into law as a way to protect women, but not men. 

It was created based on the false assumption that an oppressive patriarchy exists and that men are always the perpetrators, and women always the victims. Indeed, the document itself admits this. 


The purpose of this part is to assist States, Indian tribal governments, and units of local government to develop and strengthen effective law enforcement and prosecution strategies to combat violent crimes against women, and to develop and strengthen victim services in cases involving violent crimes against women.” 

Under section (b), PURPOSES FOR WHICH GRANTS MAY BE USED, again, the law states that it specifically applies to women:

Grants under this part shall provide personnel, training, technical assistance, data collection and other equipment for the more widespread apprehension, prosecution, and adjudication of persons committing violent crimes against women, and specifically, for the purposes of— (1) training law enforcement officers and prosecutors to more effectively identify and respond to violent crimes against women, including the crimes of sexual assault and domestic violence.

The VAWA also makes it clear that women are the only priority when considering victims of violence – it only ensures that some long-term and transitional housing for victims is gender-neutral – and that’s about the best it does for male victims. 

The reality is that most of the programs that the VAWA helps fund are exclusively for women, and any programs for men that do exist are created to indoctrinate men and boys; to teach them how to fix their abusive behaviors. 

Here are a few of the grants made possible by the VAWA. These grants are only available for female victims, or are specifically designed to reinforce the myth that men are always the abusers:

  • Grants to Decrease Violence Against Women with Disabilities (Sec. 204) (42 U.S.C. 3796gg-7) (OVW). Women with disabilities should get funding, but not men.
  • Training and Services to End Violence Against and Abuse of Women Later in Life (Sec. 205) (42 U.S.C. 14041a) (OVW). Old women should get protection, but not old men. 
  • Engaging Men and Youth in Preventing Domestic, Dating, and Sexual Violence, and Stalking (Sec. 401) (42 U.S.C. 14043d-4) (OVW). This is a program to teach men how to stop abusing, yet there is no female-equivalent available. This reinforces the false idea that men are always perpetrators, and women are always victims.
  • Grants to Combat Violence Against Women in Public and Assisted Housing (Sec. 601) (42 U.S.C. 14043e-4) (OVW). Out of 7500 Shelters in England and Wales – only 60 are for men. A similar situation exists in the United States; almost no shelters for men, but plenty for women.
  • Analysis and Research on Violence Against Indian Women Baseline Study (Sec. 904(a)) (42 U.S.C. 3796gg-10 note) (NIJ). No research for violence against Indian men. 
  • Tracking of Violence Against Indian Women—Access to Federal Criminal Information Databases (Sec. 905a) (OVW) / National Tribal Sex Offender Registry (Sec. 905b) (OJP)(28 U.S.C. 534(a)). Again, not for men.
  • Grants for Battered Women’s Shelters (Sec. 406) (ACF). None for men.

There is no “Office On Violence Against Men” or any other male equivalent of the many programs that were funded by the VAWA, which operates under the false assumption that domestic abuse against men never occurs.

As Phyllis Shlafly said, in her article entitled, “Violence Against Women Act Abuses Rights of Men”, the VAWA: 

“… which costs nearly $1 billion per year, is one of the major ways former President Bill Clinton bought the support of radical feminists.” 

The VAWA has never been anything more than a political bargaining chip; an acquiescence to the demands of man-hating feminists, in exchange for their votes.  

The VAWA Violates Men’s Rights 

Thanks to the VAWA, anyone in the U.S. can get a domestic violence restraining order, whether or not they have any evidence that domestic violence has occurred. As points out, emergency orders are available “… based solely on your testimony to a judge. The judge can grant this order ex parte (without prior notice to the abuser and without him/her being in court)”. This blatantly violates the right to due process.

Due process was written into the Fifth and Fourteenth amendment as a way to prevent the government from depriving citizens of “Life, liberty or property without due process of the law”, and to make sure that officials follow fair procedures.

However, as the Legal Information Institute (LII) states:

… it is not always enough for the government just to act in accordance with whatever law there may happen to be. Citizens may also be entitled to have the government observe or offer fair procedures, whether or not those procedures have been provided for in the law on the basis of which it is acting. Action denying the process that is “due” would be unconstitutional” (LII). 

So in other words, just because the VAWA was written into law does not mean that its violations of due process are fair or constitutional.

The Legal Information Institute further explains: 

Suppose, for example, state law gives students a right to a public education, but doesn’t say anything about discipline. Before the state could take that right away from a student, by expelling her for misbehavior, it would have to provide fair procedures, i.e. “due process” (LII).

The fact that the VAWA has legalized the denial of due process rights to “perpetrators” does not mean that doing so is constitutional. The only reason the VAWA hasn’t been thrown out for this reason alone is because feminist patriarchal propaganda has swayed the minds of elected officials.

To clarify, these are the rights that are owed to all citizens, but which the VAWA act denies the accused, based purely on the word of the accuser:

  • An unbiased tribunal.
  • Notice of the proposed action and the grounds asserted for it.
  • The opportunity to present reasons for the proposed action not to be taken.
  • The right to present evidence, including the right to call witnesses.
  • The right to know the opposing evidence.
  • The right to cross-examine adverse witnesses.
  • A decision based only on the evidence presented.
  • Opportunity to be represented by counsel.
  • A requirement that the tribunal prepare a record of the evidence presented.
  • A requirement that the tribunal prepare written findings of fact and the reasons for its decision.

Not only is due process denied to the accused, but personal property can be taken based solely on the word of the accuser: “…you may also be able to get possession of personal property in an emergency order if the judge believes that the abuser would likely get rid of the property if s/he knew you were asking the judge for it or if you have an immediate and pressing need for possession of that property” (

As states:

Without questioning the petitioning party, without hearing from the person to be restrained, and without any evidence other than claims written on the standard-form, pre-printed petition, judicial officials regularly issue domestic violence restraining orders. An estimated 1.7 million domestic violence restraining orders issued in the U.S. in 2008. 

Despite the high number of restraining orders currently being issued, most contain false accusations. Here are just a few empirically validated facts concerning restraining orders, as noted by

  • There are between 2 to 3 million temporary restraining orders issued annually in the United States (US DOJ, 2009).
  • Most of these orders are issued ex parte, meaning the order is granted without the accused being present or given the opportunity to defend him or herself.
  • These orders are often granted without any proof of physical violence or threats. The accuser need only allege that they “feel” threatened, not that they were, in fact, threatened or assaulted.
  • Temporary restraining orders stay in effect until the accused is granted a hearing. This can take upwards of 6 weeks, sometimes longer depending upon how backlogged the court is or unscrupulous attorneys who request continuances to maximize legal advantage and drive costs.
  • In custody cases in which restraining orders are issued, 70% of the recipients are fathers and 27% of the recipients are mothers (Raub et al, 2013).
  • In a review of restraining orders issued in California (Sorenson & Shen, 2005), 72% were obtained by women against men.
  • The California State Bar Association acknowledges that restraining orders are “routine” in custody cases and abused by individuals seeking to punish their exes and to “jockey” for unfair legal advantage (Robe & Ross, 2005).
  • Elaine Epstein (1993), former president of the Massachusetts Bar Association stated, “Everyone knows that restraining orders and orders to vacate are granted to virtually all who apply…In many cases, allegations of abuse are now used for tactical advantage [in divorce and child custody].” Epstein also reported seeing “affidavits which just said someone was in fear, or there had been an argument or yelling.”
  • A 2008 study found that 72% of civil restraining orders were frivolous, based on exaggerated claims, or were otherwise unneeded (Foster, 2008).
  • Johnston et al (2005) found that 59% of allegations of domestic violence between couples involved in custody disputes could not be substantiated by the courts as true.
  • In a review of one West Virginia county’s family court, Foster (2008) concluded that 81% of restraining orders issued were unnecessary or false.

The VAWA has allowed almost anything to be defined as domestic violence. In California, for example, “Abuse means to … harass, telephone, or contact you; or to disturb your peace or to destroy your personal property. Abuse can be spoken, written, or physical”.

This definition is so vague that a person can easily define any disagreement as “abuse”. As Julie Borowski of Freedomworks says:

The newest version of the VAWA, S.47, contains very vague and broad definitions of domestic violence. A man that raises his voice at his partner, calls her an offensive name, stalks her, causes her any emotional distress, or simply just annoys her can potentially be prosecuted under the VAWA. Calling your spouse a mean name is not advised or polite, but it isn’t the same thing as violence towards her.

A so-called victim of domestic violence need only fill out a simple form and they are able to almost immediately deprive a so-called “perpetrator” of due process and civil rights. The “perpetrator” will be determined guilty until proven innocent. This results in unfair arrests, and an increase in domestic violence.

As Phyllis Shlafly states:

One example of VAWA funding doing actual harm is the lobbying to enact state laws requiring mandatory arrest and training the criminal justice system to pursue aggressive enforcement. A Harvard University study of mandatory-arrest laws in 15 states found that they increased partner homicides by 57 percent (Shlafly). 

Despite these statistics, despite these blatant violations of civil rights, and despite the evidence that proves that most restraining orders are falsely obtained, thousands of restraining orders are regularly approved, and often innocent men are disproportionately arrested and jailed for domestic violence. As puts it:

Beginning in the late 1970s, battered women’s activists launched a remarkably successful campaign for states and police departments to adopt laws and policies that encouraged, even required, police officers to arrest in domestic violence cases.

Attorneys are similarly encouraged (and have a financial incentive) to prosecute, and judges routinely make felons out of innocent men. All of this is made possible by sexist views of domestic violence like the Duluth Model, and the myth of an abusive patriarchal society; all of it a result of feminist sexism.


There is more to criticize, concerning the VAWA. Suffice it to say that such blatantly sexist and unconstitutional legislation needs repeal. As Janice Shaw Crouse puts it, the VAWA is a “boondoggle” which “ends up creating a climate of suspicion where all men are feared or viewed as violent and all women are viewed as victims” and creates a “climate of false accusations” and “hidden agendas” (Crouse). The VAWA replaced a perfectly successful and gender-neutral law with a gender-specific law. It was designed to fill feminist coffers and it promotes extreme feminist ideals, divorce, and the hatred of men. It costs the taxpayers more than a billion dollars a year, and it was created based on a lie; a “radical feminist fairy tale” that lacks “even a shred of truth” (Shlafly). 

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